Sexless In Seattle

Swiping, Sipping and Spilling the Tea on Modern Love

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I’m back back back again! Now 40 and on a new journey. I’ve traveled to a few places made a lot of friends and have started a completely new career in the aviation industry. This will be the story of my journey and some tips, tricks and inspiration for anyone who is a bit older but feeling like they are starting their lives over from the beginning. I won’t pretend it’s an easy journey but maybe I can make it a bit easier for you.

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  • Diary Entry #6 Ghosts, Goblins and Trauma Dumpers

    Hello again. It’s so nice to be here with you all. I love being able to join you and let you into my dating journey and I’m so happy that you all continue to join me. Dating has been interesting as you all have come to realize from my blog posts; but it’s not just…

  • Diary Entry #5 Dr. Applebee’s Denny’s Esq.

    Hey yall! How’s it going? Is life still lifeing? Awesome. Same for me. So you may be looking at the title of my blog post for today and thinking, damn girl, that’s a crazy title. Well, the crazy title matches the crazy date I had. It’s official I just went on maybe the worst date…

  • Diary Entry #4 Date with Fragile Ego Fred

    Hello friends. I can call you all friends now right? We’ve been together for a time now. How are all of you? Thank you for joining me again. I’m so thankful for all of the love and support I’ve received from those of you who are following my journey. It’s brought so much light and…

  • Diary Entry #3 Swipe Left on Scams, but if you swiped right I can help you see the light.

    Mood: Strong, Insightful and Determined Hello all and welcome to my TED talk. Lol just kidding. Seriously though, I made the decision when I started this blog to post about a date each week and I will continue to do that but I was hit with inspiration today to talk a little bit about a…

  • Diary Entry #2 Date with Captain Jack

    Mood: Optimistic, excited and living in my Empress Energy Here we go again. She’s back, back, back at it again! Anyone that knows me knows that I have spent years, upon years, upon years, starting and stopping dating. Sometimes I stopped because I felt discouraged, sometimes I stopped because I got bored and sometimes I…

  • Diary Entry #1: Back in the Game at 40 – Let the Dating App Chronicles Begin!

    Date: June 20, 2025Mood: Excited, a little terrified, and armed with a glass of wine. Well, folks, it’s official—I’m diving back into the dating pool in my 40s, and let me tell you, it’s like jumping into the deep end with a life raft made of Wi-Fi and a questionable profile pic. After a hiatus…